I asked Jesus one night, “What are the things You want me to do?” I was praying in the Spirit, and the Holy Spirit gave me this answer: 1. Intimacy — Time With Him First and foremost, Jesus wants me to spend time with Him. This time is to be marked by intimacy, love, and closeness. There is an exclusivity the Lord requires, and I knew He was saying I was to be with Him in tenderness, as if His bride.